Today is Alexa’s (my daughter) wedding day. I’ve been thinking about the concept of community and how it fits in with getting married.
I’ve also been thinking a lot about both my mother who died over 26 years ago and Suzanne’s mother who recently passed on. Both had a huge impact on the communities they were involved with and both left a large footprint on the world.
We all choose to participate in communities or pass on them. We have so many communities to choose from today it often is difficult to decide which one to involve oneself with or which ones to pass on. In addition, there are communities we may decide to participate in that are fleeting and only joined for a particular purpose or short time frame.
Today I’ll be participating in the community that has come together to celebrate Alexa and Rob on their wedding day. For most of the people the community that I participate with will be a short time one. For some, it’s a lifetime community and some, in between. But, no matter what the time frame is the community will exist for today.
I’ve written and talked a lot about become a non-person after you sell a business or leave an industry for something else in your life. This is a good example of joining a community and then moving on. The problem for many is that they don’t realize they’ll be moving on as soon as they sell their business or leave an industry.
It’s not a bad thing that you’re moving on, and it’s not a bad thing when people don’t call as much as they used to. It’s just that you’ve moved out of a particular community whether you wanted to or not. For some, the surprise of being moved out of a community causes significant issues. For some, they don’t realize their life will change.
I recommend that you think about the communities that you’re a member of and realize that as you move out of the circle of a particular community you think about joining a new one. If you think about what you want in your new community the transition from one community to another can a fulfilling process. We are all social and we all need community. And, we all stand on the shoulders of those who have come before us and those who have moved on.
So, today I not only will be celebrating Alexa and Rob and their marriage I’ll be celebrating a unique community coming together to recognize their union. I’ll also be remembering the community and footprint and both grandmothers had on both Suzanne and I and through us our daughter, Alexa. It’s one of the bittersweet thoughts that I’ll dwell on today.
Josh Patrick
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